Tired of the BS!

I created this blog because I'm pissed off and tired of all the BS! I'm a woman. And, yes, I have a brain. It can happen and actually it does happen much more often than most people think it does. Why can't people understand this!

I decided to refinance my home loan. My husband knew I was thinking about it, but he mostly leaves this stuff up to me. So, I call a mortgage broker that was recommended to me to get the ball rolling. The male mortgage broker asks me, "so, are you the one driving this one?". Well, yes I am. He takes down our info and says he'll email me the good faith estimate and loan packet. Ok. I get everything today and what do I see? My husband's name on the top of every page. My name, when it appears at all, is underneath his What? Why him first? I love my husband and all, but I'm the one doing the legwork here. I'm the one arranging all of this. I'm always the one driving this bus, and yet his name always appears first. I'm sick of it!

Am I alone here? Are there any other frustrated females out there? Let's hear it ladies!